Give Your Garden Wedding A Bit Of New York Elegance

White A line wedding dress hanging on display rack

With so many fun and unique elements incorporated into one wedding day, it is impressive how pared down and chic Shawn and Nishat were able to keep this fabulous garden wedding in New York! Starting with a simple color palette and finding exciting ways to add both of their family's heritage into the day you will not want to miss a single moment of this late summer soiree.

Below you will find some of our very favorite moments from the day and you can find every last photo provided by Offbeetproductions in our full gallery. Enjoy!

Beautiful bride in flowing gown smiles in lush garden

Young ring bearer and flower girl holding hands outdoors Bride smiles at flower girl with bouquet on wedding day

Bride with bridesmaids in pink dresses and flower girl

The Look Of The Day

Shawn and I prided ourselves on being able to maintain a timeless, romantic feel while also incorporating elements from our many backgrounds. We knew we wanted our wedding in New York, where I grew up, and a city that is one of the most diverse in the world. Our vision for the wedding was white and green with hints of blush. We felt it would be clean and elegant to match the Palm House. We also loved the dotted lighting that used to be present at the Palm House prior to its renovation, so we elected to have amber uplighting along the beams of the venue and bistro lighting along the wall, to replicate its sparkling, romantic, “lit only by candlelight” feel.

Welcome wedding sign for Nishat and Shawn in Brooklyn

Fountain at botanical garden with glass conservatory Bride and groom share a sweet moment at their wedding Bride and groom walking away at outdoor wedding venue Outdoor wedding ceremony archway with white flowers

Outdoor wedding ceremony with white chairs and floral arch

Woman playing a large harp outdoors in natural light Bride and groom at flower arch outdoor wedding ceremony

Groom kisses bride on forehead at wedding ceremony

Bringing Multipule Cultures Together

Our ring bearer and flower girl, both my first cousins once removed, are mixed in race - the ring bearer is half Bangladeshi, half Czechoslovakian, while the flower girl is half Bangladeshi, and of mixed European descent. During the ceremony, we incorporated a Persian tradition of exchanging a taste of honey on our fingers. After our ceremony and prayer with Imam Shamsi Ali, who is a world-renowned scholar, you can see that we incorporated a private Chinese tea ceremony in the Palm House. Shawn’s Chinese lion dancing troupe from college, Penn Lions, also performed during our reception.
For more entertainment, we also had Denise Fike, a live fashion illustrator local to Philadelphia (where we had met in College), draw portraits of our guests and their outfits. She sketched a range of clothes including saris, American dresses, and Chinese outfits.
Finally, our neon sign for the photobooth reads "#shahafiei" - a blend of our Persian and Bangladeshi last names, Shafiei and Shahabuddin. As far as outfits, my ceremony dress was custom made - I sketched it myself and had a vendor from India make it. I wanted something timeless for the first dress - modern, minimalist, elegant. For my reception dress, I wanted something more romantic - something that reminded me of the embroidery and intricate decor that South Asian dresses often have.

Elegant wedding reception in bright glass conservatory

Elegant wedding seating chart with copper frame decor Smiling bride and groom posing together on their wedding day

Hand drawn sketches of girls in dresses on bookmarks

Pouring tea from a floral teapot into a small white cup

Bride signs wedding papers at outdoor ceremony table Bride and groom sign the marriage certificate at a wedding

Elegant wedding kiss in a sunlit glass conservatory

Elegant white floral centerpiece at a wedding reception Elegant wedding table with white flowers and decor, ready for guests Elegant wedding reception tables with white floral centerpieces Elegant table number 7 on frosted acrylic at a wedding reception

simple and chic wedding place setting in white and green

Make It Yourself

We made the seating chart and ceremony program posters, as well as the copper frames. I also made and assembled the “Reserved for” seating signs. The last big DIY project was the wedding favor. I love sweets and I used to work at a bakery (the irony is I am a dentist), so I made 200 cupcakes - white cupcakes filled with a black cocoa pudding and topped with vanilla frosting, and vice versa for the other cupcake - black and white to maintain the "timeless" theme. I ordered custom M&Ms that were branded with our “NS” logo to decorate the cupcakes. I ordered the boxes and ribbons, designed and printed the stickers, and assembled everything with Shawn and our siblings as helpers - it was truly a family effort!

Elegant three-tiered white wedding cake with flowers and initials on top